Check-ins
Supporting communication in moments of silence.
Choose your schedule
Pick a check-in rhythm that fits your life:
- Weekly check-ins by default on Standard, daily on Premium and Supreme
- Standard can switch to weekly or fortnightly; Premium and Supreme add daily
- Change your schedule anytime from your account settings
Your check-in day and time are completely up to you.
How check-ins work
When a check-in is due:
- You receive an email at your scheduled check-in time
- Log in and tap the check-in button to confirm
- You have 8 hours to confirm (the Response Window)
- If you confirm, nothing else happens. Your Delegates are not contacted
- If you do not confirm, a reminder is sent every 8 hours
Check-ins are designed to be quick and unobtrusive.
Escalation buffer
You control when Delegates are contacted:
- Choose your escalation buffer: 8, 16, 24, or 48 hours from your scheduled check-in time
- Escalation is enabled while your plan is active
- You choose escalation mode: Staged or All at once
- We do not contact Delegates before the end of the Response Window
- Reminders run on their own 8-hour clock, not on the buffer you chose
Caution: reminders and escalation are both measured from your scheduled check-in time. If you choose an 8-hour buffer, escalation falls due at your first reminder and is sent in its place, so your Delegates are contacted without a reminder reaching you first.
Delegates can act anytime
Your Delegates are not limited to waiting for a missed check-in:
- Delegates can Raise a Concern at any time if they are worried about you
- In multi-Delegate accounts, this alerts other Delegates so they can coordinate
- During an open Status Check, we normally send daily reminders to you to log in and respond
- Delegates who were notified may receive follow-up updates when action is no longer needed
- A Concern prompts you to respond via a check-in
- Delegates can also request a Care Pause if you are temporarily unavailable
Quick check-ins stop active escalation or deletion clocks but do not reset the scheduled timer. Your next Scheduled Check-in will still occur at the usual time.
Learn more about Delegates →Passive Check-ins
Coming soon on Supreme:
- Your step count from the free companion app can quietly supplement your check-ins
- A long quiet spell can mean a fall, but it can just as easily mean a hard week when getting out of bed is difficult, so we gently prompt you first
- Opt in, off by default, and you can switch it off at any time
- Not medical or emergency monitoring, and never a replacement for manual check-ins
Passive Check-ins are optional and always under your control. They are about wellbeing, mental as much as physical, never surveillance.
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From the Journal
Longer reading on this part of Y.O.D.O.
- How Check-Ins Work in Y.O.D.O.You choose the rhythm. A simple tap confirms you are present. If you miss one, your Delegates may be contacted. Here is what happens at each step.Read the article
- What Check-Ins Are and Why They ExistA check-in is a scheduled prompt that confirms you are present. If you respond, nothing happens. If you do not, your Delegates may be contacted. This article explains the thinking behind it.Read the article
- How To Check In On An Elderly Parent, Without It Feeling Like SurveillanceA short guide to the everyday rhythms that keep an elderly parent gently noticed, and how Y.O.D.O. makes that noticing structural rather than accidental.Read the article
- Living Alone, Not UnnoticedFor people who live independently and those who care about them. How regular check-ins provide reassurance without changing anyone's routine.Read the article