Skip to main content

    How it works

    How Y.O.D.O. Works: Scheduled Check-Ins, Care Pauses, and Sealed Messages.

    Y.O.D.O. is a quiet companion. It checks in with you on a schedule you choose, lets the people you trust step in if you ever go silent, and holds the words you want them to have, until the moment they need them.

    One tap to check in. A rhythm that fits your life.

    The three steps, in order

    Every so often

    We send a quiet check-in.

    On a schedule you choose, Y.O.D.O. sends you one short message. You log in and tap once to say you are OK. That is the whole check-in.

    Monthly by default, and you can change the cadence at any time. You can also send a Quick check-in yourself after a long flight, a hospital stay, or a quiet stretch, so the people you trust know nothing is wrong.

    How Check-ins work

    If you ever go quiet

    The people you trust are asked first.

    If you miss a check-in, Y.O.D.O. does not raise an alarm. It quietly contacts the Delegates you chose, in the order you set, so they can check whether you are simply busy, away, or in need of support.

    A Delegate can request a Care Pause when life is loud, so check-ins do not chase you while you focus on what matters. There are no automated alerts, no location tracking, and no contact with emergency services.

    How Delegates work

    If the worst happens

    Your words reach the right people.

    Inside your account, you can write private letters, notes, or voice messages for specific people. Y.O.D.O. holds them sealed and unread, so only the recipients you chose will ever see them.

    Messages are released only after a passing has been formally verified, and only once the Buffer period you set has ended. You can add, edit, or remove what you have written whenever you want.

    How Messages work

    Roles at a glance

    Who does what

    A short side-by-side of the four Y.O.D.O. roles, what each person sees, and what they are asked to do.

    Account Holder

    You. The person the account is set up to look after.

    Sees
    Everything in your own account.
    Does
    Sets the Check-in rhythm, nominates trusted people, writes sealed Messages, keeps details current.
    Cost
    Paid subscription.
    Delegate

    Someone you trust to act if you ever go quiet.

    Sees
    Your status only. Never your Messages or Check-in content.
    Does
    Responds if you miss a Check-in, can request a Care Pause, can formally report a passing.
    Cost
    Free account.
    Special Delegate

    A professional or organisation you nominate to be told once a passing has been verified.

    Sees
    Your name and the contact details you shared, only after verification.
    Does
    Receives one neutral notice and acknowledges it. Solicitors and notaries may optionally help verify a passing, if you enable it.
    Cost
    Free account.
    Recipient

    Someone you have chosen to receive one of your sealed Messages.

    Sees
    Only the Messages you addressed to them, after release.
    Does
    Verifies their identity, then has 12 months to view and download.
    Cost
    Nothing to pay.

    Only Account Holders pay. Delegates, Special Delegates and Recipients are always free.

    What you will and will not feel.

    Y.O.D.O. is built to sit gently in the background. Most of the time, you will barely notice it.

    Seconds, not chores.

    Each check-in takes a single tap. No forms, no tracking, no daily reminders.

    Sealed until verified.

    Messages stay encrypted. Nothing is released until a passing has been formally verified.

    Quiet by design.

    No location data, no health data, no surveillance. Only the signals you choose to send.

    What Y.O.D.O. is not.

    Y.O.D.O. is a communication support service. It does not replace a will, monitor your health, detect medical events, or contact emergency services. It simply helps the people you trust know you are OK, and makes sure your words reach them if you ever cannot deliver them yourself.

    Ready when you are.

    Y.O.D.O. is now live. Start your free trial today.

    Check in. Live on.